Monday, July 23, 2012

A MOTHER'S GRACE QUARTERLY NEWS LETTER 11th Edition

Hello Everyone! I am off today to take Joe to his medical doctor and talk to him about starting Joe  on some supplements and essential oils! Particularly Doterra Essential oils...we will use frankincense, vetiver, and the balance blend!I will be updating each month on his progress with this protocol!! Here is some info on Frankincense!!! Love and healing to you all!!!

 FRANKINCENSE
BOSWELLIA FREREANA
Calming, Revitalizing and Uplifting-- When in doubt start with Frankincense. Good for children, seniors, elderly, pregnancy, transitions and enlightenment.
Dr. David K. Hill has a book on Frankincense available thru www.aromatools.com and see webinars on www.builddoterra.com Dr. Hill has created on Frankincense for our education.
FRANKINCENSE is also known as olibanum, and is a small, shrubby tree with white flowers. Incisions in the bark produce a milky-white resin that hardens into orange-brown “tears,” and the essential oil is steam-distilled from these “tears” of hardened resin. Frankincense has fresh, citrus, turpentine top notes and sweet, warms, balsamic, camphoraceous, wood-smoke undertones. It blends well with most floral, woods, spices and citruses, also with patchouli, clary sage, rosemary, basil, vetiver and my favorite mix is with Wild Orange - protector on several levels.
Research shows traditional use of Frankincense in driving away evil spirits (Egyptians, Greeks, Romans, French, Asian folklore and rituals), and if we think of these spirits as obsessions, fears and anxieties which may have become manifest as physical illness, we understand the benefits of applying Frankincense for all occasions.
FRANKINCENSE: analgesic, anti-bacterial, anti-inflammatory, antiseptic, anti-depressant, astringent, carminative (relieves gas), cicatrizant, cytophylatic (stimulating regeneration of cells), digestive, diuretic, expectorant, sedative, immune boosting tonic, anti-carcinogistic.
Frankincense is the most valuable essential oil for slowing and deepening breathing, helping to allay fear, anxiety, nervous tension and stress. It literally smells divine, and was traditionally burned as an offering to the gods. Useful in massage and bath oils, Frankincense is also good in inhalation, diffusers and mood blends. It counteracts respiratory problems and is useful in treating colds, bronchitis, asthma, coughs and sore throats.
Frankincense has been documented all over the world to have a very strong Cancer deterrent factor --Nicole Stevens has produced current research on effectiveness of essential oils with eliminating cancer and is published - available www.aromatools.com. Dr. Hsueh-Kung Lin, published his research on doTERRA’s Frankincense clearly stating that in eliminating many forms of cancerous cells this is the most potent and effective oil he has had the privilege of working with - the fragrance made him more energetic too.
One of the gifts of Frankincense is its’ chemistry - sesquiterpenes--can cross the Blood Brain Barrier (BBB) and facilitates oxygenation of cells for optimal
communication at the cellular level. In a study that has already triggered follow-up work, sesquiterpenes were shown to increase the number of certain receptors in the brain and are now considered prospects for treatment of Alzheimer’s, Parkinson’s disease and schizophrenia.* (Frankincense, Sandalwood, Valerian, Myrrh, Vetiver research) Skin treated with the sesquiterpenes allows polar compounds such as water to penetrate more effectively.
Frankincense has profound psychological and spiritual benefits, long recognized by religious and spiritual traditions the world over. Its centering effect allows one to focus clearly and is an ideal aid to meditation, contemplation, and prayer, ceasing mental chatter and stilling the mind. Facilitating a state of single-pointed concentration, it allows the Spirit to Soar. Helpful in allowing the past to be in the past, and creating an environment in which optimism and an expectation of freedom in dwelling on current successes that allow peace and self-acceptance to take place.

Friday, January 20, 2012

A MOTHER'S QUARTERLY NEWSLETTER 10th EDITION


Good Winter's Day!!

Hope this New Year of 2012 finds you well and deep in blessings! My dear Joseph has been home for months now and doing well. He is still living at his current home, Interlude, and in the middle of finding a job. For now, we are still going one moment at a time, but isnt that how we all should live? :) I recently spent time with Joe on his 26th birthday on 1/11/12 and we had a lovely day sharing coffee, lunch, and gift shopping! I am grateful for our moments of love and healing...for I believe in putting that intention for each and every one of them! I started a page on facebook called ShareLoveNow...I try each day to get in the consciousness of sharing Love and any and all happy feelings with the Universe...with everyone, everything, every creature, every cell of the Universe, the All!! If you are eating your favorite meal and you feel the joy, stop for second and share it with the All. It can be that simple!! If you look at your child and you well up with Love inside, share the Love!!!! Reprogram your mind to do this each day...watch the miracles and balance occur within your own life and the Universe!!
For this moment as you read my blog, let's all take a moment and surround and fill all those challenged with a mental illness and their families and share love with them from your heart and soul! It truly makes a difference...love carries energy, everything does...and I believe it is the most powerful healing tool...so let's our hold hands over our hearts and send! <3

Friday, October 14, 2011

A MOTHER'S GRACE QUARTERLY BLOG 9th edition


Well here we are some months later after a long stay at the state hospital and although my Joe has been doing okay, the voices still plague him! The meds will only go so far...we are in need of something else. I still firmly believe in diet, vits, and other natural remedies, and all that beautiful healing way, but unless someone can be on call for Joe 24/7 to help him deal with the voices in whatever means...it will end up staying the same as it is now...in and out of hospitals adjusting meds! In Joe's case and in most cases , this healing model doesn't work! I have researched and found a group called hearingvoices.org and I will contact them and maybe find a way to start a support group in Joe's area. I have also done some reading on Carl Jung...it all sounds good on the internet , but where are the people schooled in this? Has no one come up with some behavioral therapy for hearing voices? I will keep searching and talking and praying! For right now, my Joe took control in some way this past week and when the voices were so strong, he told his case manager he should go in the hospital because he didnt feel safe. That has never happened before and albeit scary, he took control...unfortunately the only answer was back in the hospital. But we pray.....

Thursday, May 26, 2011

A MOTHER"S GRACE QUARTERLY NEWSLETTER 8th Edition



Hello Sweet Souls,

Gosh it seems like forever since I have updated, but it is most certainly time! My Joseph is in the hospital yet again and has been for a few months. They are now probating him to the state hospital here in CT because the high dose of Clozaril isnt working as they had hoped! I heard the news and my heart didn't quite know what to do, but I think it always stops just a little every time there is a new development. I know as his mother and spiritual being that he needs to do what is best for himself, take his meds, eat right, find all the healing tools necessary to heal, and use them! I just pray we get to the core of what is inside my boy so we can help him heal it, but even with a thought disorder, my Joe has choices. I just wish there was a more healing place to go to than the state hospital. But that will be my wish and goal forever in my lifetime! So once again I must in some way and on some level let it be and let go in a healthy way. I love you Joseph and I ask all of you reading this to send Love and Light to my boy as I do every second of my life!


I want to share a beautiful poem my Bella who is now 12 wrote about her brother.





Reality and Fantasy


Your mind

is locked in a continuous battle between reality and fantasy.
It twists images into something abnormal.

Sees things only you can see.

Reality and Fantasy are bound together by a rigid rope.

You are struggling to cut through it and break free.
You have conversations with invisible people.

Are they real?

You think so.

Doctors boost up your medication...
350 milligrams

450 milligrams

650 milligrams

Will they ever stop?

Your heart

is kind
loving
and warm.
It can brighten up a room.

Your smile
shines---
is big

and makes me laugh.

I love it when you smile.

You are my brother

and I love you,
that is reality.

Your sister,
Bella

Sunday, November 14, 2010

A MOTHER'S GRACE QUARTERLY NEWSLETTER 7th EDITION


Happy Fall Everyone!



So today, November 14th, we are in this moment okay. I am always grateful for each day we wake in that energy! Joe is back at Interlude and hanging in there. We visit each week and spend the day together in healing and fun! Keep the prayers coming!



I also wanted to let you all know about my new radio show ~Wingin It~on www.sjrn.net radio. Tomorrow, Nov 15th, I will
be talking about "mental illness", my story, and chatting about what still needs to be done to help those struggling with it all and their families. Feel free to join me and call in to chat! You can also go in the chat room and ask me questions or comment if you prefer it more anonymous. I would love to hear from you! The number and chat room link are at the website! I pray for you all each day and send happy loving healing Light! :)

Wednesday, August 18, 2010

A MOTHER"S GRACE QUARTERLY NEWSLETTER 6th Edition


Update on my Joseph



Well it has been a long road, but the last 6 months have taken it's toll. My Joe has been in and out of the hospital more times in the last year then with this whole illness of 5 1/2 years. And for some reason, I have felt it deeper and more cutting in me than ever! I have cried more hours than I can count. I suppose you go through a mourning period and I just held my little boy in my heart and soul, remembering him before this illness manifested. I love my son no matter what and as he is, but I just kept thinking of my little one when nothing was weighing on his mind, but which toy to play with and what TV show to watch!
He just doesn't want to be on meds, but he isn't okay without them! As I type this, he is still in the hospital. The Clozaril isn't working like it did before and he hates taking it. He is at the point where he says he will take them, but comes out and stops them. He takes off all night long and comes back in very bad shape. Again, this brings me to what I will always believe until the day I die...we need more healing places where we can not only try meds, but test for everything and utilize holistic and spiritual therapies!
I pray people like Glenn Close, Joe Pantoliono, and others with fame help us fight for it all! Glenn has started an organization www.bringchange2mind.org and Joe www.nkm2.org ; I will link them here on my blog! I wont give up, ever!! So I am asking for prayers and love to be sent our way...I have Joe on every healing list I know! I continue to pray for what is best for my son's sweet soul!!!

Wednesday, March 10, 2010

A MOTHER'S GRACE QUARTERLY NEWSLETTER 5th Edition March 2010




Update on Joseph:

My Joseph has in the last 6 months, taken off to NYC without letting us know and been hospitalized. He eventually called and returned home to us both times, but the last trip in the dead of winter was very difficult for us all. The stress and worry was too much for us to bear, so we got together in the hospital to talk about the next step in Joseph's healing with Jospeh included of course for this is his life. :)
Believe it or not, Joe's meds were reduced to just one, Clozaril. He was also on Geodon, but the doctors felt it wasn't needed. Also with the help of his case manager and social worker, it was decided that Joe would move into transitional living in Danbury, a place called Interlude...once again we have been blessed with amazing people that were now added to our team of healing! Joe explained to us that when the voices come he has to listen to them, and in this case it was going off to do what he needed to do. Not to harm anyone, but he couldn't resist the voices! He also felt very restricted living at home with his Dad. So we thought it was time to try living on his own but with supervision and people to help teach him life skills. It is a one day at a time process as you all know. He already missed his meds on Sunday night and it has only been a week so far. But we are all acclimating to this next leg of the journey and we move along and keep forging ahead. God bless you Joseph! WE are all pulling for you!!!